It is THAT time – the “holiday season” where we indulge on Thanksgiving and overspend on Christmas. Some people excel this time of year – running on adrenaline as they decorate and bake and buy and just revel in the moment. But I know this isn’t true for everyone – some people travel this time of year in pain and depression. I am trying really hard to pay attention to the people around me and where they are functioning. I truly want to contribute to people’s hope and not add to their despair. I am going to confess something here – for most of my life I was the pain and depression person. I have dreaded this time of year for as long as I can remember. It has always been the “extreme” period when I have always felt the most alienated from family, the most alone, the time when I greatly felt that I wasn’t good enough to belong anywhere. And if I were to dive into the memory vault (which I will not do), I know that it has also been the season where I have experienced the greatest hurtful