Have you ever had someone repeat something you said out of context? Or just simply twist your words altogether to fit their scenario? Or has someone, without knowing the truth, assigned intentions to your actions that simply were not who you are or what you desire? If you have, then like me, you know what a terrible experience it is. It is exhausting and spirit zapping. I have been through it many times, as have some I love, and I am holding close to someone who is currently enduring the process. To be so maligned by an enemy is one thing – to be maligned in this way by someone you love deeply can be devastating. When something like this happens to you, your thinking begins to center around the question “How do I handle this?” Do I try to talk to the person who is disseminating the false information, to clear the air and ask ‘why’? Do I stand up for myself in a public way so that the people listening in will stop believing the lie? Do I ask others who know the truth to step into the